Betsy Jo Paradies (Achten)

Betsy Jo Paradies (Achten) of Lawrence, KS, loving wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend, passed away December 22, 2024, at The University of Kansas Medical Center in Kansas City, KS. She was surrounded by those she loved most, her family, at the time she passed.

Betsy was born July 18, 1959, in Sabetha, KS, the daughter of Robert and Alice “Toni” (Marson) Achten. She married Jay Paradies on February 21, 1981, in Topeka, KS. Together they had two children, Rachel (William) Byrn and Christopher (Mariah Whitmore) Paradies. All survive.

Other survivors include her brother, Curtis (Christina) Achten, sister, Melanie Manry, six grandchildren, Cali (Dominic Visentin) Byrn, Ryan Byrn, Kaydee Byrn, Kendall Byrn, Theadora Paradies, and Graham Paradies, and numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, and in-laws.

Betsy was preceded in death by her parents.

Betsy loved to garden, grew her own herbs and vegetables, and made the best brisket you’ve ever had. She retired in July from Hallmark Cards after 45 years. She saw the best in everyone and every situation, was an avid sports fan, and hosted every holiday dinner. Above all, she loved her family, attending every concert, school music program, and game for her children and grandchildren.

Memorial services will be held Saturday, March 29 ^th at First Christian Church, 1000 Kentucky St. Lawrence, KS 66044 at 11:00am. The family asks guests to wear their favorite Jayhawk, Chiefs, or St. Louis Cardinals gear, Betsy’s favorite teams.

Memorial contributions may be made in Betsy’s name to Midwest Transplant Network and may be sent in care of Warren-McElwain Mortuary, 120 W. 13th Street, Lawrence, KS 66044.